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Squirmy Dodges a Bullet

SquirmyCoral has a fish tank. In her tank she has a bunch of inbred guppies all descendant from the same 3-4 original fish. She also has a now fairly large pleco. The other resident of her tank is a loach. I guess it’s a weather loach - although it’s of the golden variety. His name is Squirmy.

The other evening I went to feed the fish before bedtime. We have a small canvas box next to the tank and in that box we keep various fish foods and other tank supplies. As I reached for the food I noticed something odd in a plastic cup in the box. It was Squirmy! Ahhhh! I had no idea how long he had been there but my first thought was that he was dead.

But, as a kid I once had a similar loach and I think on more than one case he jumped out of the tank and was returned later and survived. So, I quickly dipped the cup in the water. Squirmy didn’t move. I let the cup of water sit there in the tank for a minute and slowly squirmy started to move. We put him back in the tank and Coral went to bed not knowing if Squirmy would be okay or not.

Well, several days later Squirmy seems to be back to normal so I guess he’s fine. I’ve covered up the small holes in the tank cover (I’m amazed that he got out in the first place).

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Our Good Dog

[I realized after writing this you might get worried about Scout - don’t worry! Skip to the end if you want an update on him. Also, my other computer is busted which is temporarily limiting my access to pictures of Scout, sorry. Finally, this is a very long post about a dog so unless you’re particularly interested you might consider skipping it.]

Back in 2000, B and I went out to the Fauquier County animal shelter to look at dogs. Actually, we went to look at puppies. The Fairfax County shelter didn’t have puppies very often and when they did they got adopted quickly - but they suggested we check out Fauquier County. The shelters out in the country are a little more farm like but the facility was nice and clean.

Since we were there we decided to walk up and down the runs and look at the adult dogs they had. In fact, our plan was to head out and see what kind of puppy selection they had. We weren’t ready to get a puppy, specifically planned on not getting a puppy that day, and we didn’t get a puppy.

However, as we walked up and down the rows looking at the dogs there was one dog that B noticed. Most of the dogs would start barking once they knew people were walking around. Many would run and jump around as you passed them. They were excited! Except this one dog. Every time we walked by this dog he was lying on the ground, with he head on his paws, and he would wag his tail. He didn’t get up, he didn’t even raise his head, just wagged his tail each time we walked by.

He wasn’t much of a dog. Skinny. Brownish red. Mutt. Fairly shy. But B was interested in him so we asked if we could take him out to the yard to play with him. The yard was just a big fenced in gravel area. Out there he seemed more interested in the other dogs and looking out across the fields - he didn’t seem to pay much attention to people. I started to wonder if he had played us - knowing that if he did it right he could get an extra run in the yard. But he seemed very sweet.

I don’t remember exactly how it worked but somehow B convinced me we should get him. “But our plan was to NOT get a dog today,” I protested. B reminded me that the plan was to not get a PUPPY. A technicality I say.

So, we adopted Scout. We couldn’t take him home that day because he had to get fixed first. He was a year or two old, nobody knew for sure. He had been at the shelter for a few weeks - long enough that nobody seemed to know for sure where he came from. I think someone said an area farmer got tired of the stray dogs on his property so he rounded them up and brought them in - but it didn’t really make a lot of sense.

A few days later we drove out to the Centerville Animal Hospital to pick him up after he got fixed. Right off the bat we started to get worried. On our way out he walked right into the closed glass door. In the parking lot he started barking at the cars whizzing by on the nearby street. As soon as we had him in our car a waterfall of drool started pouring out of his mouth.

When we got home it wasn’t much better. He didn’t seem to understand how to go up the stairs and he freaked out a bit when he saw himself in the mirror. Fortunately, he didn’t seem to pay much attention to our four cats.

We weren’t sure what to think but we concluded that he was just a farm dog that didn’t understand the ways of the “city”. Later this was confirmed when he walked off the dock a my mom’s house in Annapolis, not realizing the water could be too deep to stand in. Or the time B took him to the beach and he made himself sick drinking water from the ocean.

It didn’t take long for us to fall in love with Scout. He figured out the stairs and glass doors pretty quickly. He quit barking at cars. He still drools in the car, but not as much. If you’ve ever met Scout you know he’s a chill dog. He still has a touch of nervousness around people but I don’t think he’d hurt a fly. When Coral was a baby he basically ignored her and kept away. Now he puts up with her pulling on him, pushing him, yelling at him, and generally bossing him around. Actually, he doesn’t just put up with it - he seems to enjoy it. He follows her around in the yard.

He’s a terrible guard dog. I can’t remember the last time he barked at all and I don’t think I’ve ever seen him bark at a person. At the dog park he finds the biggest dog there to play with. He’s not at all aggressive with other dogs but he doesn’t put up with anything so the yippy dogs leave him alone.

He’s not perfect. He generally won’t run off… unless he sees another dog he wants to say hi to. He’s not great on hikes because he’ll run off the second he smells a deer (although he apparently doesn’t have great eyesight because seeing one doesn’t do anything for him). He pulls on his leash, especially in the evening, and generally has to poop about 4 times on a 10 minute walk. He’s annoying around the house because he clacks up the stairs after you, even if you’re going to come right back down.

But really, he’s almost perfect. And he’s the sweetest dog you’ll ever meet. I’m here with him at the Veterinary Internal Medicine Practice of Northern Virginia in Manassas where they’re checking him out. His regular vet and the dog cardiologist think he has some kind of growth on his liver. We’re hoping it’s something small that grows very slowly (or doesn’t grow at all) but we don’t know yet.

As the vet was leading him to the back for the ultrasound he was holding his leash in his mouth the way he likes (gives him more control I think), a little spring in his step, happy to be getting the attention. It just got me thinking about what a good dog he is.

Update: The vet says that Scout definitely has a tumor growing in his liver. It’s not a solid mass and lacks a dedicated blood supply. It is only in one part of one lobe of his liver and hasn’t spread anywhere else. She wasn’t able to grab a quick biopsy due to the location. After looking at the blood work it seems to be a slow growing tumor - potentially very slow growing. She laid out three options:

1. Do nothing now and in about a month or so take more measurements to see if we can tell how fast it is growing.

2. Do a semi-invasive biopsy so they can look at the tumor cells directly and get a better sense for what it is.

3. Remove the lobe of his liver. She feels that based on what she sees now this would basically “cure” him.

The second option is costly, invasive, and could still not actually give us more info (the nature of the tumor means that when they take some snips of his liver they might get only normal liver tissue and not any bits of the tumor) - so we’re not really considering that.

The third option is costly, and would be major surgery, but the vet feels like the odds of success are very high. We would just go for this option except that based on his blood work over the years it seems like this tumor might have been growing for a couple of years already. If that’s the pace it’s going to continue at then he’d be a pretty dang old dog before this tumor could start causing him any problems.

So we’re still deciding on what to do. This seems to be almost the best possible situation (short of the previous vets having been totally wrong about there being anything in his liver in the first place) so that is certainly good. In fact, the internal medicine vet felt pretty strongly that Scout doesn’t have Cushings Syndrome (something our regular vet worried about), which is very good. A very slow growing tumor is apparently actually better than Cushings Syndrome.

We’ll keep you posted on Scout but as of right now he’s doing quite well (if only he would quit eating the cat food….).

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What happened to your face?

PJ and my busted faceOkay, here’s the story of how I smashed up my face.

My brother is moving and asked me to help. We were working on loading the truck for a second time. I had just secured some furniture with bungee cords. I was walking to the back of the truck, looking for the next thing to load up. At about that time, my nephew David hopped in the truck to help out. All of the sudden there was a bang (I guess, I’m not sure I heard it) and I had a searing pain under my left eye. At first I thought David had thrown something at me and whacked me in the face - wouldn’t have been the first time. I was actually starting to turn to him to yell at him when I realized that whatever hit me in the face hit me a lot harder than David could have.

At about that time I realized that it really, really hurt. I might have started to suspect the bungee cord but I’m not sure. Somehow I hopped out the back of the truck with my left hand up to my face over my left eye. I looked down to see blood pouring into my right hand. I that point I started saying (or maybe yelling), “I need some help.” I think everyone got to me fairly quickly and my older brother (Tim) was right in front of me. I looked up and moved my left hand away and asked him if my eye looked okay. At about the time he was saying that it looked fine I realized I was able to see out of the eye so that made me feel better.

That was also when I saw Coral standing in Brian’s front yard looking at me. I’m sure it was scary for her so I asked people to get Coral away so she couldn’t see me bleeding. I also asked for a towel and contemplated taking off my shirt to jam up against my face. Tim told me to put some pressure on it with my hand but I wasn’t too into that idea - but about then someone handed me a wad of paper towel. I put some quick pressure on it and then pulled it away for Tim to look at and he said it didn’t look too bad. Well, bad enough that I should go to the hospital but not so bad that I should be too worried about it.

At that point I actually called B to let her know what was up (I was supposed to drive Coral over to the pool soon to meet up with B and friends). Tim’s wife, Andrea, offered to drive me to the ER so we were heading to the car. Before I got in I took a quick look in the truck mirror to see the wound for myself - it didn’t look too bad.

It only took about 5-10 minutes to get to the ER and the bleeding had mostly stopped well before we got there. I started wishing someone had hooked me up with some ice but overall it wasn’t all that bad.

At the ER they got me through triage pretty quickly but then I had to wait about 1.5 hours before getting a room. Actually, they were out of rooms so I got to sit on a bed in a hallway. There was some excitement in the room next to my hallway that involved a patient, police, and hospital security folks - but that’s a story for a different time.

After a while they took me back for a CT scan - the same machine that they had run Pearl through a few weeks ago. The tech said it would take about 30 minutes before the radiologist looked at it but that it looked good to her. A while later, back in my hallway, the doctor (actually a physician’s assistant) told me the CT results were fine - no broken bones.

More waiting and then the PA came and washed the wound and decided I needed a couple of stitches. Still more waiting before she came back and gave me the two stitches. Still more waiting before I decided to leave without getting my official discharge instructions (she had already told me what to do - it was just taking a while for her to close out my file). Of course the checkout person didn’t care - as long as I was willing to pay her the $100 co-pay she was fine with me leaving.

So, there you have it. I’m lucky my eye isn’t busted. I’m unlucky that I got hit in the face in the first place. I’m lucky I got out of the rest of helping Brian move. I’m unlucky that I didn’t get to spend the afternoon at the pool with my family. Overall, not my first choice for how to spend a Saturday but I can’t complain too much.

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New Old House

Another day, another update. Who knows, maybe I’ll even post some pictures sometime soon.

Ever since Coral was born we have talked about where she might go to school when she’s older. B grew up in DC and went to private schools. I grew up in Reston (more or less) and went to public schools. I think we both have open minds about the options but we also have no first hand experience with the other way. Well, as Coral gets older we’ve been thinking more and more about our options. Even though we’re still a year away from kindergarten, if we wanted to go private school we’d have to start looking into the silly admission tests soon.

Anyway, we lived in Fairfax County, which generally has really good public schools. Our neighborhood elementary school was apparently pretty good but we had heard bad stories about the middle school. We lived very close to the City of Falls Church, which has a national reputation for it’s very small, independent school system. It seemed like it might be a good mix of the benefits of public and private schools.

We had been casually looking at houses in the City for a while and over time realized that unlike Fairfax County there wasn’t a lot of turn over in the City. We figured that there wouldn’t be many houses up for sale that fit what we were looking for so we got mentally prepared to move quickly if something popped up. We weren’t in a position to buy a new house before selling out old house, especially in this market.

As it turned out, a couple of months ago we saw a house that we liked. We made a mad scramble to get our house on the market and got very lucky with the timing - someone happened to be looking for a house just like ours right as we listed it. The house sold in 24 hours. We turned around and put an offer in on the house we wanted in Falls Church. Now, I’m writing this blog post from our new house! Wow.

To make a long story longer (just like yesterday), this house isn’t exactly new. It’s actually two houses stuck together. The first house was built in 1871 and the rest was added about 10 years later. In 1983 the house was moved a few blocks from its original location to its current location. Speaking of location, we really like it here. We can walk to the community center, park, library, shops, restaurants, and the metro. I can walk to work. The neighbors seem really nice.

We’re still getting settled in and we do miss our old house. We bought that house in 2000 and I lived in that house longer than I lived in any other house in my life. We did a lot of work on it over the years getting it just the way we wanted it - and now we’re gone. We have tons of memories in that house and I think we’ll always remember it fondly. But, with two rug rats running around (okay, one running and the other just lying there for now) it was getting a bit cramped.

The new (old) house is still a disaster as we try to get all our junk stuff moved in. Once we’re a little more settled in we’ll start having people over. Of course, if you’re up for carrying boxes around you could probably come visit sooner!

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Eyes

Hey, maybe now that a couple of hurdles have been hurdled I’ll start updating the blog more often. I guess only time will tell.

If you’re reading this you probably know that Pearl was born with strabismus. This is a condition which causes her eyes to not work together properly. In Pearl’s case, her eyes tend to angle out - which is called exotropia (or, if you’re not a doctor, wall-eyed). Congenital (from birth) exotropia is apparently fairly uncommon and is usually associated with other scary problems. However, Pearl has undergone a battery of tests (okay, mostly just an MRI of the brain) which seem to indicate that there isn’t any obvious cause of her condition.

What does this mean? Well, practically speaking it means that when Pearl looks at something only one eye is pointing at that something and the other eye is pointing at something else. This is kind of confusing when you’re interacting with her because it’s hard to tell what she’s looking at. The eye doctor is fairly confident that she sees well with each eye individually and that she basically just uses whichever eye she feels like to look at things. Apparently, her brain is able to selectively ignore what the other eye is seeing, preventing her from having double vision.

The deviation is pretty dramatic with Pearl’s eyes. As she’s gotten older she has actually been able to pull her eyes together to focus on things from time to time but it usually doesn’t last long and one of her eyes drifts off. To prevent her brain from permanently giving up on one eye and just use the other for seeing things we have had to patch one of her eyes each day for about 90 minutes. We alternate the eye that we patch, forcing her to keep using both eyes.

The doctor said that technically we didn’t have to do anything to fix Pearl’s condition. She would likely have gone through life without much trouble seeing things. Her depth perception would have been impacted, but even there it’s not like she would have had no ability to perceive depth. However, if nothing else, it’s a bit of a cosmetic issue having one of her eyes all over the place.

So, to continue a long story and make it longer, last week Pearl had surgery on her eyes to hopefully correct her strabismus. Believe it or not, this procedure involves moving the muscles on the side of the eyeballs in order to realign them. It seems scary but it is apparently a fairly routine and risk free thing (hey, even her eye doctor has had the procedure done on him… I’m not sure if that’s good or bad).

She came out of it great. The anesthesia took a while to wear off but her eyes look pretty good - not too swollen and just a little red. It’s to early to tell if the procedure was successful but we can already see that her eyes are aligned much better. Se may need an additional adjustment down the road but it’s too soon to know about that.

We’re very happy to be past the surgery - it had been looming for quite a while. Big sister Coral was very concerned about Pearl but is happy to see that she is doing well.

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ENT

For those of you who look at my little Twitter feed on the side of the blog I just wanted to follow up on my mention of a pediatric ENT - I don’t want anyone to worry!

Pearl has unilateral choanal atresia - which basically just means that she was born with one nostril that is basically closed. This isn’t a big deal, her other nostril is fine and allows her to breath without any trouble. However, for a few different reasons, we’re thinking of having them do a procedure to open up the closed nostril. This requires a CT scan so the doctor can see exactly what he’s up against. We went in for the CT scan this morning but the order from the doctor wasn’t specific enough for the technician - it didn’t say exactly what she was supposed to do the CT scan of. It was fairly dumb because the order did say “choanal atresia” and that is a condition of the nose - hence the CT scan should be of the nose.

It probably wasn’t the tech’s fault but she couldn’t do anything until someone (she claimed it had to be the doctor who ordered the CT) told her what exactly to do CT of. This was 8:15am so our doctor wasn’t readily available. Being in a hospital full of doctors apparently didn’t help either. However, when the radiologist finally got there he apparently said something to the effect of, “duh, we should do a CT scan of her nose.”

So, it all worked out fine. Pearl was such a great kid that they didn’t have to conk her out - she stayed still for the quick scan. It will be a couple of weeks before we know the results of the scan and make a decision about her nose.

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